"A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches" Proverbs 22:1
My Grandpa died last Thursday. I've been trying to think of something to write about this but everything felt too personal to share in this forum. I think my sister's post covers it nicely so I'll just link to her and leave it at that.
Showing posts with label Introspection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Introspection. Show all posts
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Point - Counterpoint
Point: I don't like being woken up early by the pitter patter (more like stomper stamper) of little feet.
Counterpoint: I worry when they sleep late. Maybe they've stopped breathing, been kidnapped, run away.
Point: It's hard going to work in the morning when a two year old just wants to snuggle.
Counterpoint: It's hard playing with kids after a long day of work when I just want to sit in a comfy chair with my eyes closed.
Point: I don't like playing "What's that smell" in the boys' room.
Counterpoint: I really don't like finishing a round in the game of "What's that smell" in the boys' room.
Point: I don't like stalking around the house, turning off lights.
Counterpoint: It's kind of fun working to achieve the appropriate level of muttering while stalking around the house.
Point: I don't like finding child inflicted damage on walls, trees, computers, furniture, cars, sisters, gardens, clothes, carpets, animals, etc.
Counterpoint: I also don't like the feeling of hypocrisy when I tell a child not to inflict damage on walls, trees, computers, furniture, cars, sisters, gardens, clothes, carpets, animals, etc. (sorry Dad)
Point: I like watching them grow up so we can do older activities.
Counterpoint: I don't like watching them grow up and finding I miss some of the younger activities. (But I'm pretty sure I'll never miss Candyland.)
Point: I like thinking about the things they're going to accomplish as they get older.
Counterpoint: I don't like thinking about the obstacles they're going to have to overcome as they get older.
Point: I like being a dad.
Counterpoint: Sometimes it's hard being a dad.
The whole point: Most of the time it's great.
Counterpoint: I worry when they sleep late. Maybe they've stopped breathing, been kidnapped, run away.
Point: It's hard going to work in the morning when a two year old just wants to snuggle.
Counterpoint: It's hard playing with kids after a long day of work when I just want to sit in a comfy chair with my eyes closed.
Point: I don't like playing "What's that smell" in the boys' room.
Counterpoint: I really don't like finishing a round in the game of "What's that smell" in the boys' room.
Point: I don't like stalking around the house, turning off lights.
Counterpoint: It's kind of fun working to achieve the appropriate level of muttering while stalking around the house.

Counterpoint: I also don't like the feeling of hypocrisy when I tell a child not to inflict damage on walls, trees, computers, furniture, cars, sisters, gardens, clothes, carpets, animals, etc. (sorry Dad)
Point: I like watching them grow up so we can do older activities.
Counterpoint: I don't like watching them grow up and finding I miss some of the younger activities. (But I'm pretty sure I'll never miss Candyland.)
Point: I like thinking about the things they're going to accomplish as they get older.
Counterpoint: I don't like thinking about the obstacles they're going to have to overcome as they get older.
Point: I like being a dad.
Counterpoint: Sometimes it's hard being a dad.
The whole point: Most of the time it's great.
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
25 Random Things About Me
The 25 random things insanity has finally made its way to me. I say "finally" but I've really just been ignoring it. Anyway, here goes.
1- I once spent the night on a bench in the Brussels, Belgium train station.
2- I've eaten dog. It doesn't taste like chicken... more like beef.
3- I don't like Spanish rice. This is probably due to childhood trauma resulting from exposure to my mom's "danger rice".
4- I started playing the guitar during my freshman year of college. I still play but not as often as I'd like. The first song I memorized was Hotel California.
5- I once disassembled a portable stereo down to individual components, including de-soldering all of the little resistors, capacitors, etc. from the circuit boards.
6- The only time I have ever been frisked was by airport security in Tokyo.
7- I learned about auto repair from my first car, an '83 Oldsmobile Omega.
8- I am excited for my boys to grow older so I can buy toys for them that I can play with.
9- I've only ever received two speeding tickets, one when I was in my mid-twenties and one when I was in my mid-thirties. Both times I was going 13 miles an hour over the limit.
10- When I can't sleep, I slowly count up to 100 in Korean. If that doesn't work, I do it again and form the letters that spell each number in my mind as I count.
11- My first rock concert was Def Leppard. My most recent concert was Dave Matthews. The loudest concert I've been to was Rush. My favorite concert was Barenaked Ladies.
12- My daughter, Bryn Reagan, is named after comedian Bryan Regan because Sue and I saw him perform live while she was pregnant. Okay, not really. She's actually named after a Welsh Bass-baritone and a dead U.S. president.
13- My very first game of Scrabble was with Sue, before we were married. I used all of my letters on my first turn, spelling the word, "genuine". She went on to beat me easily and continued to win every game until some time after we were married.
14- Until we had children we would play several games of Scrabble every week, sometimes more than once a day. At some point we accidentally tied (I know official Scrabble rules don't allow a tie but we don't follow the rules quite so exactly) and from then on we always tried to tie if our scores were relatively close at the end. I win about 52% of the games we don't tie.
15- I experienced being tear gassed several times while trying to get a better look at riots in Korea. The best place to watch Koren riots, in case you're wondering, is from the roofs of buildings along the streets. Supposedly, putting toothpaste under your eyes will help limit the effects of tear gas. In any case, don't rub your eyes because that just makes it worse.
16- The earliest memory I have is when I had my tonsils removed when I was three.
17- I love going into my boys' room when they're just waking up. They are so sweet and haven't found anything to fight over yet.
19- The last time I was in a hospital emergency room was about a year ago when my son Cole slipped in the bathroom and cut his head. He got two staples.
18- The last time I was in a hospital emergency room for an injury to myself was about 10 years ago when I got hit in the chin with a block of ice and needed six stitches.
20- I met my wife at a barbecue. I knew I wanted to marry her after I met her family. I proposed on the trip home after she met my family.
21- I once went backpacking alone up in the mountains in Utah and in the middle of the night a large animal (a moose, I think) walked through my camp. I preferred camping without a tent so I felt (and really was) quite exposed when the beast came crashing through the underbrush. Fortunately, it kept on going and didn't walk across where I was laying.
22- I read a lot. I usually have at least three books I'm reading at a time: one (or more) by my bed, one audio book I listen to while driving, and one other book I carry in my laptop bag for when I have spare moments during the day.
23- After I graduated from college with a degree in computer science I decided that I hadn't read enough "Literature" so I spent a couple of years reading nothing but classical authors: Plato, Dickens, Poe, Tolstoy, Hemingway, etc. Some books I checked out of the library but others I bought at thrift stores, and even occasionally at regular book stores. I won't say it made me a better person but at least I can catch the literary allusions in The Simpsons.
24- Nothing I've ever accomplished has given me the thrill I get when I watch my boys doing something I taught them to do.
25- In the six years we've been married, my wife and I have never had a real argument. We've been annoyed at each other but we both have non-confrontational natures and after a short time whatever issue was bothering us seems insignificant compared to the love we share. Plus, she was on the debate team in high school and would kick my trash in any argument.
26- I'm very easy going but I have a stubborn streak that comes out whenever I feel like someone is trying to make me do something. Even if I wanted to do it, when someone tells me to do it I feel like I have to resist. Maybe that's why I couldn't just do 25 random things.
1- I once spent the night on a bench in the Brussels, Belgium train station.
2- I've eaten dog. It doesn't taste like chicken... more like beef.
3- I don't like Spanish rice. This is probably due to childhood trauma resulting from exposure to my mom's "danger rice".
4- I started playing the guitar during my freshman year of college. I still play but not as often as I'd like. The first song I memorized was Hotel California.
5- I once disassembled a portable stereo down to individual components, including de-soldering all of the little resistors, capacitors, etc. from the circuit boards.
6- The only time I have ever been frisked was by airport security in Tokyo.
7- I learned about auto repair from my first car, an '83 Oldsmobile Omega.
8- I am excited for my boys to grow older so I can buy toys for them that I can play with.
9- I've only ever received two speeding tickets, one when I was in my mid-twenties and one when I was in my mid-thirties. Both times I was going 13 miles an hour over the limit.
10- When I can't sleep, I slowly count up to 100 in Korean. If that doesn't work, I do it again and form the letters that spell each number in my mind as I count.
11- My first rock concert was Def Leppard. My most recent concert was Dave Matthews. The loudest concert I've been to was Rush. My favorite concert was Barenaked Ladies.
12- My daughter, Bryn Reagan, is named after comedian Bryan Regan because Sue and I saw him perform live while she was pregnant. Okay, not really. She's actually named after a Welsh Bass-baritone and a dead U.S. president.
13- My very first game of Scrabble was with Sue, before we were married. I used all of my letters on my first turn, spelling the word, "genuine". She went on to beat me easily and continued to win every game until some time after we were married.
14- Until we had children we would play several games of Scrabble every week, sometimes more than once a day. At some point we accidentally tied (I know official Scrabble rules don't allow a tie but we don't follow the rules quite so exactly) and from then on we always tried to tie if our scores were relatively close at the end. I win about 52% of the games we don't tie.
15- I experienced being tear gassed several times while trying to get a better look at riots in Korea. The best place to watch Koren riots, in case you're wondering, is from the roofs of buildings along the streets. Supposedly, putting toothpaste under your eyes will help limit the effects of tear gas. In any case, don't rub your eyes because that just makes it worse.
16- The earliest memory I have is when I had my tonsils removed when I was three.
17- I love going into my boys' room when they're just waking up. They are so sweet and haven't found anything to fight over yet.
19- The last time I was in a hospital emergency room was about a year ago when my son Cole slipped in the bathroom and cut his head. He got two staples.
18- The last time I was in a hospital emergency room for an injury to myself was about 10 years ago when I got hit in the chin with a block of ice and needed six stitches.
20- I met my wife at a barbecue. I knew I wanted to marry her after I met her family. I proposed on the trip home after she met my family.
21- I once went backpacking alone up in the mountains in Utah and in the middle of the night a large animal (a moose, I think) walked through my camp. I preferred camping without a tent so I felt (and really was) quite exposed when the beast came crashing through the underbrush. Fortunately, it kept on going and didn't walk across where I was laying.
22- I read a lot. I usually have at least three books I'm reading at a time: one (or more) by my bed, one audio book I listen to while driving, and one other book I carry in my laptop bag for when I have spare moments during the day.
23- After I graduated from college with a degree in computer science I decided that I hadn't read enough "Literature" so I spent a couple of years reading nothing but classical authors: Plato, Dickens, Poe, Tolstoy, Hemingway, etc. Some books I checked out of the library but others I bought at thrift stores, and even occasionally at regular book stores. I won't say it made me a better person but at least I can catch the literary allusions in The Simpsons.
24- Nothing I've ever accomplished has given me the thrill I get when I watch my boys doing something I taught them to do.
25- In the six years we've been married, my wife and I have never had a real argument. We've been annoyed at each other but we both have non-confrontational natures and after a short time whatever issue was bothering us seems insignificant compared to the love we share. Plus, she was on the debate team in high school and would kick my trash in any argument.
26- I'm very easy going but I have a stubborn streak that comes out whenever I feel like someone is trying to make me do something. Even if I wanted to do it, when someone tells me to do it I feel like I have to resist. Maybe that's why I couldn't just do 25 random things.
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